Self-Management Activities & Resources

Self-management is the ability to control emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in different situations. These vital SEL tools, fidgets, and games help kids practice self-regulation, calm down when frustrated, and make thoughtful choices.
Globbles - 16 pack
$23.99 $25.99
top rated
Stop Relax and Think Board Game
$59.95
top rated
Anger Defuser: The Fun Anger Control Game for Kids and Teens
$49.99
Soft Fleece Dual Texture Weighted Sensory Blanket - 7lb
$98.99
top rated
The Impulse Control Game
$59.95
top rated
Arggh! 3 Pack Neon Sensory Balls
$12.99 $14.99
Calming Breathing Boards
$34.99 $39.99
Weighted Hug Ball - Blue
$24.99
Bouncy Pad
$399.99
Soft-Twisty Floor Seat
$49.99
Thought Changing Card Kit for People Who Self Injure
$35.95
Soft-Twisty Floor Seat 4 pc Flexible Seating Pack
$169.99 $199.96
Sit & Twist Active Seat Cushion
$32.99
Gel Lap Pad - Small
$25.99 $29.99
Arggh! Moon Stress Ball
$14.97 $19.99
top rated
Polyhedron Squeeze Ball
$3.49 $5.99
CBT Toolbox for Children and Adolescents: Over 220 Worksheets & Exercises
$25.49 $42.99
Totika Kohatu with 4 Decks
$42.95 $49.95
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Spiky Sensory Finger Rings (10 Pack)
$7.99 $8.99
Rocking Saddle Stool
$59.99 $69.99
top rated
Erupting Volcano Motion Bubbler
$7.99
Weighted Lap Pad - Large - Blue
$43.99
Comfy Peapod Sensory Pods - Large - Dark Blue
$119.99 $129.99
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NeeDoh Dream Drop
$5.99
Frankl the Weighted Fox Toy
$49.99 $59.99
Dohm UNO White Noise Machine - White
$42.99 $49.99
Sensory Gel Maze
$32.99 $39.99
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Anger Management Thumball
$16.99 $17.95
Plunktika Anger Game
$31.99 $34.95
Calming Clips (12 pack)
$17.99 $19.99
Bouncy Board Balance Board
$76.99
The Helping, Sharing, and Caring Board Game
$59.95
Therapy Putty
$14.99 $17.95
NeeDoh Rainboh
$5.99 $6.99
Fidgit Stix
$8.99 $9.75
Mega Twiddle - Blue
$14.97
top rated
Rainbow Pin Art
$14.99 $15.99
Nod Sound Machine
$19.99 $24.95
top rated
Tangle Jr. Classic
$6.99 $7.99
Arggh! 3 Pack Fidget Ball - Calm Colors
$14.99 $19.99
top rated
Mindfulness Matters
$15.99 $22.99
Speks Super Magnetic Balls - Oil Slick - 6 Pack
$37.95
Indoor Framed Sensory Dark Den
$139.99 $159.99
top rated
Liquid Motion Bubbler
$9.49 $10.49
top rated
Squishy Stress Ball (Set of 3)
$9.99
Wiggle Seat Sensory Cushion - Blue
$21.99
Anger Management Box
$24.99 $29.99
Big Behaviors in Small Containers: 131 Trauma-Informed Play Therapy Interventions for Disorders of Dysregulation
$28.99 $36.99
Active Floor Seat
$79.99 $89.99
Gel Lap Pad - Medium
$27.49 $31.99
top rated
Mesh and Marble Monkey Fidgets (Set of 8)
$8.99 $9.99
Signets Fidget Toy - 8 Pack - Emerald
$39.99
Motivation Thumball
$18.99 $19.99
Mystery Squishy Dumpling - 3.5" - Jelly
$5.99 $9.99
Wiggle Feet Sensory Cushion
$23.99 $27.99
Dual Pedal Portable Foot Swing
$169.99 $186.99
Original Rubik's Cube
$10.49 $12.99
Comfy Peapod Sensory Pods - X-Large - Mint Green
$174.99
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Calming Stretchy Band
$14.99 $15.99
Bouncyband Desk Version
$18.99
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Self-management is one of the five core competencies of social emotional learning (SEL). It involves regulating emotions, managing stress, controlling impulses, and setting and achieving goals. Helping children learn to stay calm and focused gives them the confidence to handle challenges with resilience and responsibility.

Our collection of self-management activities, games, and calming tools helps kids practice mindfulness, emotional regulation, and positive behavior. From Anger Defuser and Stop, Relax, and Think to Liquid Motion Bubblers, these resources turn emotional learning into fun and effective practice.

What These Activities Teach

  • Impulse Control: Learn to pause before reacting and make better choices.
  • Stress Management: Practice deep breathing, movement, and sensory calming strategies.
  • Anger Management: Recognize triggers, use coping tools, and express emotions safely.
  • Focus and Attention: Improve concentration and self-discipline through mindfulness and play.

These self-regulation resources are perfect for teachers, therapists, counselors, and parents who want to help children thrive emotionally and behaviorally. Use them in small groups, classrooms, or one-on-one sessions to promote calm, focus, and confidence.

Explore below to find SEL games, sensory tools, and activities that help kids strengthen emotional control and positive behavior.