Self-Management Activities & Resources

Self-management is the ability to control emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in different situations. These vital SEL tools, fidgets, and games help kids practice self-regulation, calm down when frustrated, and make thoughtful choices.
Calming Breathing Boards
$34.99 $39.99
Totika Kohatu with 4 Decks
$42.95 $49.95
top rated
Anger Management Thumball
$16.99 $17.95
Weighted Hug Ball - Blue
$24.99
top rated
Mindfulness Matters
$15.99 $22.99
Therapy Putty
$14.99 $17.95
Sensory Fidget Tools Box
$17.99 $19.99
top rated
NeeDoh Dream Drop
$5.49 $5.99
Rainbow Pin Art
$14.99 $15.99
Calming Stretchy Band
$15.99
Plunktika Anger Game
$31.99 $34.95
Globbles - 16 pack
$19.99 $25.99
new
CBT made EZ
$39.99
top rated
Liquid Motion Bubbler
$9.49 $10.49
Bouncy Board Balance Board
$76.99
Relaxation Singing Bowl
$24.99 $34.99
Totika Mindfulness Game
$27.99 $29.99
top rated
Tangle Jr. Classic
$5.99
Self-Control Thumball
$16.99 $17.95
Sounds of Rain Sensory Tubes
$21.49 $24.99
new
NeeDoh Rainboh
$5.99 $6.99
new
NeeDoh Dohnut
$5.99 $6.99
Angry Octopus: A Relaxation Story
$11.69 $13.95
Arggh! 3 Pack Neon Sensory Balls
$12.97 $14.99
NeeDoh Mello Mallo Fidget
$4.49
new
Bouncyband for Wide Desks
$16.99 $18.99
Brass Gear Fidget
$12.99 $21.99
Gyroscope Fidget - Blue Raspberry
$12.99 $14.99
new
NeeDoh Teenie
$3.49 $3.99
Silent Fidget Slider - Green
$7.99 $15.00
Calming and Fun Sensory Rocker
$109.99 $129.99
sale
Squishy Stress Ball (Set of 3)
$7.99 $9.99
Frankl the Weighted Fox Toy
$49.99 $59.99
new
NeeDoh Dohnut Holes
$5.99 $6.99
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Self-management is one of the five core competencies of social emotional learning (SEL). It involves regulating emotions, managing stress, controlling impulses, and setting and achieving goals. Helping children learn to stay calm and focused gives them the confidence to handle challenges with resilience and responsibility.

Our collection of self-management activities, games, and calming tools helps kids practice mindfulness, emotional regulation, and positive behavior. From Anger Defuser and Stop, Relax, and Think to Liquid Motion Bubblers, these resources turn emotional learning into fun and effective practice.

What These Activities Teach

  • Impulse Control: Learn to pause before reacting and make better choices.
  • Stress Management: Practice deep breathing, movement, and sensory calming strategies.
  • Anger Management: Recognize triggers, use coping tools, and express emotions safely.
  • Focus and Attention: Improve concentration and self-discipline through mindfulness and play.

These self-regulation resources are perfect for teachers, therapists, counselors, and parents who want to help children thrive emotionally and behaviorally. Use them in small groups, classrooms, or one-on-one sessions to promote calm, focus, and confidence.

Explore below to find SEL games, sensory tools, and activities that help kids strengthen emotional control and positive behavior.