Self-Management Activities & Resources

Self-management is the ability to control emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in different situations. These vital SEL tools, fidgets, and games help kids practice self-regulation, calm down when frustrated, and make thoughtful choices.
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Mindfulness Matters
$15.99 $22.99
Totika Kohatu with 4 Decks
$42.95 $49.95
Sensory Worry Stones (set of 12)
$24.99 $29.99
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NeeDoh Dream Drop
$5.49 $5.99
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Anger Management Thumball
$14.99 $15.95
Therapy Putty
$14.99 $17.95
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Liquid Motion Bubbler
$9.49 $10.49
Weighted Hug Ball - Blue
$24.99
Rainbow Pin Art
$14.99 $15.99
Calming Stretchy Band
$15.99
Unicorn Stress Ball
$2.97 $4.99
Plunktika Anger Game
$31.99 $34.95
Self-Control Thumball
$14.99 $15.95
Relaxation Singing Bowl
$24.99 $34.99
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Tangle Jr. Classic
$5.99
Sensory Fidget Tools Box
$17.99 $19.99
Wiggle Wobble Rock & Twist
$71.99 $76.99
Arggh! 3 Pack Neon Sensory Balls
$12.97 $14.99
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Nice Cube Swirl Fidget
$5.49 $5.99
Totika Mindfulness Game
$27.99 $29.99
Sawyer the Sloth Hugaround
$34.99
Gyro Fidget - Light Blue
$3.99 $6.00
Anger Management Box
$24.99 $29.99
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Calming Clips (12 pack)
$17.99 $19.99
DBT Skills Manual for Adolescents
$52.99 $57.00
Gel Lap Pad - Large
$26.99 $32.99
Sensory Soft Squeeze Seat
$285.99
Squishy Stress Ball (Set of 3)
$8.99 $9.99
Anger Management Tool Cards
$5.99 $6.99
Magnetic Ring Fidget
$6.99 $8.99
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Silent Fidget Slider - Blue
$7.99 $15.00
Dual Pedal Portable Foot Swing
$169.99 $186.99
Sounds of Rain Sensory Tubes
$21.49 $24.99
Arggh! Moon Stress Ball
$14.99 $19.99
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Self-management is one of the five core competencies of social emotional learning (SEL). It involves regulating emotions, managing stress, controlling impulses, and setting and achieving goals. Helping children learn to stay calm and focused gives them the confidence to handle challenges with resilience and responsibility.

Our collection of self-management activities, games, and calming tools helps kids practice mindfulness, emotional regulation, and positive behavior. From Anger Defuser and Stop, Relax, and Think to Liquid Motion Bubblers, these resources turn emotional learning into fun and effective practice.

What These Activities Teach

  • Impulse Control: Learn to pause before reacting and make better choices.
  • Stress Management: Practice deep breathing, movement, and sensory calming strategies.
  • Anger Management: Recognize triggers, use coping tools, and express emotions safely.
  • Focus and Attention: Improve concentration and self-discipline through mindfulness and play.

These self-regulation resources are perfect for teachers, therapists, counselors, and parents who want to help children thrive emotionally and behaviorally. Use them in small groups, classrooms, or one-on-one sessions to promote calm, focus, and confidence.

Explore below to find SEL games, sensory tools, and activities that help kids strengthen emotional control and positive behavior.