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Totika Self Esteem Game

Name: Totika Self Esteem Game
Brand: Open Spaces LLC
SKU: G-TTK1
Price: 27.99 USD
Availability: InStock
Rating: 4.8 (24 reviews)

24 reviews

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Description:

The original version of Totika. Includes the Self Esteem question card deck, which challenges players to talk about how to set and achieve goals, identify role models, develop coping and critical thinking skills, and strive for self improvement and success. Players take turns pulling blocks from the stack and responding to questions. A fun and engaging way to start conversations with any group in any setting, Totika can also be a simple game of skill when used without the question cards.

Ages 8 and up.

Additional Product Info

Topics:	Self-esteem
Recommended ages:	Ages 8 through Adult
Grade level:	Grades 3+
Players:	2 - 5
Printed in:	China

WARNING:
CHOKING HAZARD - small parts
Not for children 3 years or under

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4.8

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Customers say AI generated summary

Customers say Totika is a fun, versatile rapport-building game for kids, teens and adults—popular in therapy, schools and families. Reviewers praise the question cards, color-coding, adaptability and portability. Some users report block issues (light/poorly cut) and dislike the drawstring bag/extra setup; others find the blocks acceptable.

What they like

rapport-building
therapeutic use
good questions
color-coded cards
all ages
portable
familiar format

Could be better

block quality
light/unstable blocks
bag packaging
tedious setup

Excellent cards, blocks not great

by DOnna

November 10 2016

The game itself is popular with my clients, and the cards are excellent. However, the Totika wood blocks are not cut straight as one would expect. Thus, I would recommend investing in the sets of cards and buying an inexpensive Jenga tower and painting the blocks yourself.

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Questions are really good, a great game to play to get kids to open...

by Robyn

October 2 2018

Questions are really good, a great game to play to get kids to open up. The issue I have with this game is that the pieces are light and structure falls too quickly as a result.

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GREAT game for kids AND adults

by NLC

November 20 2014

This is a GREAT game for kids AND adults. The prompts are great for rapport-building. Whether you play with clients or family members, you'll end up learning new things about the other player/s.

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My students really love it

by Rachel

January 26 2015

I love Totika but more importantly, my students really love it. They can't wait to come to counseling. We ask questions and have fun. So glad I got this game!!!

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Great game

by Carol

July 20 2015

Totika is a great game and the different card sets make it easy to use with all kinds of kids/adults and all kinds of situations. This is a favorite therapeutic game of mine.

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Totika is a wonderful addition to my therapy games! It plays and...

by Melissa S

October 28 2020

Totika is a wonderful addition to my therapy games! It plays and looks just like Jenga but has coordinating color question cards! This helps, specifically with adolescents, to share openly when they wouldn't normally.

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My game did not come with the box as pictured, rather a bag to put...

by Jsilver

December 8 2021

My game did not come with the box as pictured, rather a bag to put the blocks in. It is a great game, cards are awesome, but a PAIN to set up every time because you have to manually set it up every. Sing. Time! Bring back the box!

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Great way to start conversation

by Qlics

June 28 2019

Great way to start conversation

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As a counselor, I love to use this to build rapport with my clients....

by Rebekah

February 15 2021

As a counselor, I love to use this to build rapport with my clients. I recently bought it for my niece's 12th birthday so the family could have a more eural way to get her to open up to them. They love it!

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I played this with a 13 year old female & it help promote healthy...

by Christina Rodriguez

February 8 2023

I played this with a 13 year old female & it help promote healthy dialogue within the session. Also played this with my family & we all appreciated the questions!

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I love the Totika Self Esteem game! I use it in individual or family...

by Paige

March 22 2023

I love the Totika Self Esteem game! I use it in individual or family therapy session with clients. Great way to engage people of various ages and a great get-to-know-you game for new clients.

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Great game

by Amanda

March 24 2017

Great game to place with client's for an ice breaker activity or to focus on self-esteem issues.

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Great Game.

by Mike

February 11 2019

Great to use for any age. Gets the conversation started with fun but also in depth questions. Blocks are lighter than original Jenga but work well.

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LOVE this game!!!

by ESU 7

August 14 2020

LOVE this game!!!

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Very fun. Reminds me of another game that kids enjoy equally but with...

by Paige Butcher

February 25 2021

Very fun. Reminds me of another game that kids enjoy equally but with the benefit of feelings ;)

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I have used this game for several years in various settings. It is...

by Ann Abell

April 8 2021

I have used this game for several years in various settings. It is easily portable and works great for school based services, private practice and TX settings. The colors allow more variety and the questions are great for tweens and teens. They really help develop conversation and rapport.

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I am in LOVE with this game. It has been such a huge help with my...

by Allyn Williams

September 29 2021

I am in LOVE with this game. It has been such a huge help with my girls in 7th grade and making their feelings more accessible with their words. Highly recommend.

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Great game, clients really enjoy. Builds rapport. Good fun and...

by Jo W

March 7 2022

Great game, clients really enjoy. Builds rapport. Good fun and therapeutic. Great addition to my toolbox.

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This is a great game to get children involved in exploring themselves...

by Monica L Deroo

December 6 2023

This is a great game to get children involved in exploring themselves because many children are familiar with the game of Jenga. There are a variety of different questions for a range of ages. The packaging is small and easy to transport.

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Great! The cards are excellent and since most kids already know how...

by CLS

September 11 2024

Great! The cards are excellent and since most kids already know how to play the game, there are low barriers to engagement.

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Like a popular game but the color coding is excellent use for...

by David Bills

April 17 2025

Like a popular game but the color coding is excellent use for multiple card decks.

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good self-esteem game

by Tina Roberts-Isbister

April 16 2025

good self-esteem game

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This game has become such a staple we bought a second for another of...

by Michelle

September 2 2025

This game has become such a staple we bought a second for another of the therapy rooms. Wish it still came in the box and not the canvas bag. It was easier to set up previously. Variety of card sets helpful, you can also adapt by assigning each color an emotion or theme: Blue: a time you felt sad or something you do to help yourself when you feel sad, etc.

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I love how the blocks & questions are color coded. It adds an...

by Lisa Oliver

November 8 2025

I love how the blocks & questions are color coded. It adds an extra layer of fun. Students in my elementary school love this game, and I love how I can decide what type of questions they will get by selecting the topic of the cards. I highly recommend this game. Older versions came in a box, while this one comes in a drawstring bag. Both are fine with me.

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